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Thursday, December 10, 2020

Carol Jose passed away

 What a year!


I read right now a post written by the family of Carol Josè a writer and journalist located in Florida. It says:


Carol, Mom, Aunt Carol,


Meme


Your mortal form has left us, but your spirit still survives. For when we count, and wish, and dream

the things that mean the most

are love, loyalty and laughter

of the ones we hold so close.


We know from this day forward we will miss

you more and more

But we will keep you close within our hearts, and

we'll remember

when you carried the flag for so many, brought joy and made us laugh.


And that, iur fearless friend, is the finest epitaph.


Carol was born on March 8 1937 and died on Dec 8th 2020


OK. Carol


entered in my existence when I started to be curious about the Partisan band located in my territory during the last World War Conflict, the San Faustino one. Being a reporter this one is a theme dear in the territory.


This band saved an American consul, Walter W. Orebaugh from the enemy and Orebauch, once returned in the USA, asked to a journalist, Carol José of writing with him the story of his adventures in Umbria, during the war and what happened to him and the rest of the band. 


Carol was incredibly happy when I asked for an interview. 


At first, she confessed me, she was skeptical regarding this story, but when the consul started to tell her this story in a restaurant, during a dinner, she asked the permission of leaving for later returning with a recorder all enthusiast for what the consul was telling her.

They wrote The Consul or Guerrilla in Stripped Pants in two years and that book has been maybe the most beautiful tribute to all the partisans and our land, Umbria.


My correspondence with Carol continued; we exchanged often e-mails. She also introduced me at Heliane Metzger, the daughter of a friend of the consul Orebaugh.


Later she decided to afford again in the town of Pietralunga. The ex mayor of the town Furio Benigni like also Luca Sborzacchi, the mayor of that years, were absolutely thrilled! 

The arrival of Carol would have meant another big reunion of partisans and the possibility of celebrating again and again the liberation of our lands from Nazis and fascists.


Once returned in the USA Carol tried in several ways of contacting people in the cinema for a movie based on this story. Carol told me that yes, there was a project, and an American director visited our places in 2000 but then September 11 changed the priorities of the movie industry.


Years ago Carol participated at the Full Frame Documentary Film Festival in North Carolina, section "Why-War"and there she met Martin Scorsese. Carol donated to the famous director a copy of The Consul. She also participated at the Tribeca Film Festival.


Born in Red Bank, New Jersey, she lived in Melbourne Beach, Florida where she was  the correspondent of the Florida Today. Carol visited Italy the first times in 1994 and 1997, assisting at the feast of i Ceri, once. 


She had met our bandit priest, don Marino Ceccarelli several times. "Oh, yes! He is a man in love for fresh air and open spaces;" what Carol wished the most, for remembering don Marino was this: planting a tree in his honor with a bench for permitting to the people some moments of relaxation close to the beautiful umbrian countryside.


To all the family my deepest condolences


Anna Maria Polidori 

Rinascimento Babilonia by Luca Scarlini

 Rinascimento


Babilonia Una Storia Erotica dell'Arte Italiana by Luca Scarlini is a new book by Marsilio.

During the Renaissance, close to immense masterpieces and intellectuals of every genre, great was the interest for love and sex in the italian community. An Italy that one profoundly divided in States and in varioud hands .


In this book, constituted of several chapters, we meet Niccolò Machiavelli but also several times i Medici, beautiful girls, and witches, illnesses transmitted because of sex, but also homosexuals tempted by etherosexuals or ermaphrodites, women interested in encounters with strangers. There are men proud of their attributes, but also recipes for not become impregnating.

I found the book pretty interesting, because every aspect of sex has been taken in consideration, and because this book give us back the Italia of a certain erotical comedy, portrayed also magnificiently well in the Decameron by Boccaccio.


Highly recommended.


I thank Marsilio for the physical copy of the book.


Anna Maria Polidori 



Wednesday, December 09, 2020

23 Things I Wish I could Ask My Mom and Dad Today by Jan Zlotnick

 23 Things I Wish


I could Ask My Mom and Dad Today by Jan Zlotnick is an original book for sure! I discovered the author in a FB page that I follow and I asked for the ebook. 

Jan is a real good person and answered me back immediately with a good e-mail and an electronic copy of his book.


It is one of the most moving books I have read. 


You musn't imagine a lot of words, there are more or less 50 pages of questions to the dad and mom of Jan if hypotetically still alive, but these questions are powerful and they enter in the soul with importance and there they will remain. 


There are moments in our existences, in particular when we are too sad or when we search for answers, or differently if in the past we had experienced a conflictual relationship with our parents, or if we are missing them so badly, that these questions can influence our days; they would make the difference for sure; but... they will remain unanswered and there is nothing more ugly and powerful than an answer never given from a parent to a child or vice-versa, because too busy with their existence, or because, simply, families love to keep their own distances. 


I thought immediately, reading these questions, that I wanted to ask them to my mother, still alive. 

I also imagined the answer at this question, referred to my dad: 


If you had one day to come back

to life, what would you do?


He would drink a glass of wine playing at cards with some of his alive friends. He loved wine and good company.


At the end of the book, the story continues, Jan Zlotnick asks to his readers:  What would you ask a loved one lost or still alive? 

You can send your One Question to jan@janslittlenotebook.com


Highly recommended.


I thank the author for the copy of the ebook.


Anna Maria Polidori 


 


Monday, December 07, 2020

Books for Dogs Emporium open this week!

 Books for Dogs,


the Emporium of "Everything You Wish to Have at a Cheap Price" will be open this Wednesday and Saturday for the joy of everyone.

The ladies of this stunning reality located in Umbertide are more than happy of offering more details: like for the past year, there will be a big, big, big, endless selections for good Christmas's gifts, but also, where you will want, Christmas Decorations for your tree and of course new books that we are more than sure will tantalize the good taste and reading appetite of the many affectionated customers. Let's remember to everyone some anti-Covid-19 measures: probably it will be necessary waiting in line and please at more than two meters of distance; the emporium can't permit more than 2-3 people per time and it would be great if you have clear ideas of what you want to buy, because you can't stay there all the time (it happened to me, I am a lazy customer, I love to see a lot of things and thinking what to buy; I love to see a lot of books, and DVDS and CDS...Well, it's better to be quick for respect to the next customer that he/she is in line; these ones are not normal times but pandemic times and times of emergence; it is indispensible for every customer once in the shop to clean the hands.

Happy and safe shopping!


Anna Maria Polidori 



Friday, December 04, 2020

Sachiko A Novel Endō Shūsaku. Translated by Van C. Gessel

 Sachiko by Endo Shusaku is a book that will remain with you at long. It is moving and tells two different stories connected: the one of Sachiko, the female protagonist of the story and her boyfriend Shuhei and the one of Father Kolbe, who, I didn't know that, spent some time in Nagasaki.



Sachiko is catholic like the rest of her family and we see that there is a certain diffidence from the japenese government regarding christians and catholics


in general. The story starts in 1930s and the advent of war doesn't better these predjudices. 


Father Kolbe that Sachiko knows, is intimidated by Nagasaki, but, oh he loves it so badly. He loved to spread a message of love wherever he went and same he did in Nagasaki.


Once returned in Polland and captured destination Auschwitz, he knows an 18 years old boy, Henryk. He doesn't believe in God. God doesn't exist, there is nothing. Father Kolbe will try to open his heart, although it is difficult, because this boy has a very hard heart.


While Sachiko growing starts to fall in love for Shuhei and while Shuhei asks to a friend of him if killing a man is correct, or what would it mean dying so young, Father Kolbe at Auschwitz is continuing to spread words of love.


This one, he said, is not technically hell, because it is possible to see love between prisoners. One day, Father Kolbe told to Henrick, he saw with his own eyes a prisoner passing to another one a piece of bread, for surviving. So, it meant, added Father Kolbe, that there was humanity, and that the horrible human conditions in which people lived didn't degradate their spirit, more weak because of starvation and cold and heavy work, but not less compassionate.


It was of course a fight for surviving, it wasn't anything else. One day prisoners escaped and germans nazis promised of killing twenty prisoners per fugitive. One day another one will escape away...Later, during another episode, when ten men were captured for being killed Father Kolbe offered his own life: the man who had to die had a wife, children. He told to Germans that he was a priest, not anymore young and alone. Yes, sometimes Father Kolbe, remembered the Japanese he had met at Nagasaki thinking: who knows who is remembering me and who is asking for me and my life? but he knew that he was alone.


The departure of Father Kolbe was extremely low and at the end they decided for a jag of poison, because prisoners after 11 days didn't speak anymore and they were in a horrible state.

In this final end, there is also the story of Martin,  who worked at the camp, who killed everyday many people.

He talked with Father Kolbe, confessing him that to him killing didn't mean anything.


Father Kolbe anyway, remained in the heart of this man for unknown reasons. Beasts, not men where Nazis. We must always remember it. And it was so...Straining reading the life at home of Martin and the one in the concentration camp.


The existence of Sachiko won't be anymore the same after some losses and the nuclear bomb.


We find her thirty years later, remembering but without sharing, because what her eyes saw, when the bomb fell in Nagasaki was just too horrible to report.


Intense, it is the first time I read in detail the experience of Father Kolbe in the concentration camp of Auschwitz. I knew his history but not in detail and I didn't know how he was killed.


 Look: in this book war is taken in consideration letting us see various "shades": battlefields, let's call them in this way, a nuclear bomb in Nagasaki and a concentration camp, Auschwitz in Polland. Is there an experience you would want to try? An experience of war less traumatic? No. The horrible devastations, destruction, losses, sufferances caused by a war, are in every country lived powerfully and with the same, damned intensity. 


A war means just desperation. Sachiko suffered because she lost people she loved and because she was a survivor, shocked of what she saw when the nuclear bomb launched by the Americans destroyed Nagasaki and killed most of the people she knew; at the same time, Father Kolbe and his friends tell us the experience in the most horrible concentration camp created in Poland.

Leaving us a message: that love is more powerful than hate.


I thank Columbia University Press for the physical copy of this book.


Anna Maria Polidori 



Thursday, December 03, 2020

Almanacco della Felicità

 Almanacco della Felicità


365 idee + 1 per coltivare la gioia ogni giorno published by Sonzogno is a manual spreading a message of happiness and gosh,  we need it so badly in a moment of profound discomfort and fear like this one is. Published this November 2020, it speaks the language of freedom. In this sense it is not a different manual from the ones I read pre-pandemic influenza.


Happiness is wondeful and passes through the understanding of who we are and what we want in our existence.


This book is divided per months and every month there are many suggestions: watching on TV movies, eating healthy,doing some exercise, reading Jane Austen or other kind of books, writing down what you feel, in a journal, using the dear old pen, buying a bouquet of flowers for yourself, you will pick up the flowers you want and love the most!, adopt a puppy, or take care of some dogs in any possible way, wear different clothes from the ones you tend to use in a daily base, try to find time for making new friendship, adopt the Kintsugi; it is the art of re-putting together pieces of a broken object. Don't throw away a broken object, try to fix its scars and you'll heal as well. Other suggestions? Tips for finding new friendships, adding new clothes without spending money with the swapping, cure your hands, buy food with criteria, be a tourist in your own city, learn a new language, treat well your hair!, walk, social medias,recipes for the feasts...


The perfect book for a new hope and first of all, for being happy!


Highly recommended.


I thank Marsilio for the physical copy of this book.


Anna Maria Polidori





Fratelli Tutti by Francesco

 Fratelli Tutti



Sulla Fraternità e L'amicizia Sociale by Francesco is a wonderful new book by Marsilio.

What is the important message of the Bishop of Rome? 


The meaning of brotherhood, a word that sometimes is not taken in consideration by everyone. 


But...Who is a good person for Francis? 


San Francesco with his life inspired Francis in writing this: brotherhood means loving friends although they can be close or distant from us. This simple act means that everyone will be appreciated, although maybe born in a complete different country and so, with a different story if compared with the closest friends.


After all Saint Francesco, writes Francis walked through people abandoned by the society, the so-called "discarded" people.


Who is a real good person to Francesco? Someone who wants to help other people at becoming themselves. It's important, Francis adds,  that we dream all together, because if our dreams are isolated we risk that they remain just...dreams.


If, remarks Francis, the world tended decades ago at a sort of unification for avoiding new wars, like the devastating second one, it's a fact that most countries are returned at the so-called strong men and new nationalisms are born.


Yes, the globalization, adds Francis is keeping the world more close to us, but that doesn't want to say that we are more close or more...brothers.


Consuming is becoming a compulsive act, and individuals tend to think that their personal freedom will permit them of building everything starting from zero.


Be careful, adds Francesco: be careful because there are people who want to manipulate our mind, and want to let us think as they think, and more, they don't respect  what history told us, what our past generations are telling us.


In general dictatorships starts in this way: a sort of brainwashing in which people think not anymore with their own mind and brain, although maybe they think that they are doing this, but with the one of someone very dangerous.


What kind of seeds can these manipulative people plant? Oh, not good ones at all, admits the Pope: lack of hope, a constant unhappiness and lack of trust. In this way society becomes sick, because there is not the common confrontation that there is in a country, but a sort of marketing operation for ruining the other competitors.


If winning means destroying the other ones how can it be possible to recognize people in need?

If we do love to take good care of our closest and distant world means having respect and curing ourselves as well!


There are big portions of the society that it is discarded with a little "selection" of human beings living limitlesses.


Yes, people are not felt anymore as people if they have difficulties, if they simply are not "standardized", and the main problem is that one.

If they are not useful or if they are not anymore useful, speaking of the old people they are discarded. If we abandon our old ones, it means that what interest us are just our indidivual interests.


So, with food and clothes also human being are discarded. 


Let's speak of work  and its obsession, remarks Francesco: reducing drastically costs of work means more unemployment and unemployment means poverty.

There is more richness tells Francis, in the world, but less equity and so new poverties.


This historical moment is dominated by the fear of future, delusion, uncertainty. 

Man sometimes think that he is onnipotent, but after all, concludes Francesco, we are all in the same ship.


No man is an island sang once a singer; and Francesco thinks that Covid-19 for once created this state of mind: no one can save himself alone, in particular during this terrible and terrifying pandemic influenza: all the world is suffering. No one excluded. We're in all of this together.

Francesco uses splendid words, for describing the past and the present: the isolation created by this egoistical society and the rediscovery of the other in a new sense of community.

We created, affirms the Pope a world of porks, and this world disaster, the pandemic flu, is inteconnected with us and our life-style.


What it musn't happen, once this pandemic flu will be over, a return of egoism. 


There's to hope that there will be a new society of "us" and not of "the others".

It's important to learn from this event. It is crucially important learning for becoming best people.


A long chapter is dedicated to migrants, symbol of weakness, research of a best place in the world where to live in, that fall in the hands of horrible people involved in drug, human and guns trafficking. No one should emigrate anymore if these ones are the results, and everyone should stay in the country where he/she is born.


When migrants become a political fact, old fears re-start to circulate dangerously creating hostility, hate.

Migrants need respect, and they are people like us, emigrated because in their lands there is a political condition unfortunately not good enough for staying. It's an act, the emigration, in most cases, caused by desperation and conflicts.


If a person is christian can't be racist, affirms Francesco.

Francesco focuses in the fear of the other that passes also through the internet, adding that in  social platforms operate big economic interests manipulating the thinking of people.


We have been all migrants. Jewish people have been migrants, we emigrated in many countries, and in the Exodus, a line says that no one should offend a migrant, because you have all been migrants in the land of Egypt.


Compassion means helping others. Let's remember tells Francesco the parable told by Jesus of the Good Samaritan, a man surely with its own programs for that day, but that found a lot of compassion for the man in need, and healed him.

Many important people avoided the sick poor man but not the good Samaritan. So, asks Francesco: who are you? The helper or...the digger? 

We became with the time says the Pope, insensitive people; if a problem doesn't touch us personally, we avoid any kind of help.

This behavior, avoid help, ignoring the other is a real misery. Better to be like the good Samaritan.

It's important to re-establish a good social order, relationship tissue. "The existence of each of us is strongly connected at the other ones; life doesn't mean time that goes by, but time of meeting" tell us Francesco.


We musn't wait that the our government sort out everything for us, as if we would be children but everyday being a new day can be great for every individual for building a best society.


Inclusion, integration, helping the one who fell, are crucials and very important things to do.

The samaritan, at the time of Jesus was considered impure, he didn't have the social consideration of all the other important people who refused to help the sick person, but he did it.

Helping other ones, also when different from our social tissue it's what we must do.

Slavery, violence, what a shame that the church recognized them as great sins with great late sometimes, writes Francis.


People must donate themselves says Francis. No one in fact can experiment the value of the existence without real faces to love. That one is a life much more strong than death! remarks strongly Francis.


I can't build my existence just staying close to my dear ones: it's necessary to diversify people we meet. In the desert, pilgrims are highly accepted by the local populations.

Poor and pilgrims said Saint Benedetto should be treated with great respect. No one become a real person, mature, if live isolated from the other ones.


We musn't search, says Francis too far for the suburbs of our world: they exist in a family, in a community. Disables, people abandoned for the most diversified reasons become strangers in their own country.


Every person should have the same right of the luckiest one. There are people are lucky enough; they start from their beginning a good existence. Warm houses, culture, food. Other ones are not so lucky enough and in a society like this one for sure there is no place for them.


If we use in this society and in this case words as freedom, democracy and brotherhood, they become...senseless. 


They don't mean anymore what they should mean for a healthy society.

Educators must also know that their job is fundamental for helping newest generations at solidariety, freedom. 


But also, affirms the Pope we must re-start to be kind, gentle with the other ones.


One of the most beautiful books I have ever read. Truly inspiring, simple, for everyone and clear.



Highly recommended.


I thank Marsilio for the physical copy of the book.